I was just thinking. once

Today I was going to try to plan out how I wanted to design my blog. 

At least plan out some format for my blog, so I can enjoy it at least.

so, YOU, the Reader, aren't confused out of your gullet. You pro 'ably already are and that's ok. 

It's not a crime to be confused or offended though. Unless you're stupid. 

Contrary to popular belief but taking offence can be a very rewarding experience. For example, getting offended helps us to understand who we are, and what it is, that we believe. As well as, how far we will go to fight for what we believe.

 It really shouldn't even be a problem when anybody does get offended. As you can't really make anybody do anything that they don't choose to do. you can influence or sway people. 

Ultimately, they have to CHOOSE to GET OFFENDED and if anything, you are just removing the kinks or flaws from their armor without their consent. The thing is, they wouldn't ever think of it themselves, without they outside influence in the first place. Again, Stupid people don't understand concepts like these. Beliefs like these don't serve them enough; there is nothing in it for them.

The only way for anybody to learn anything, is to see something or experience something and think, I don't know what this is, what is it? Then I like this, or I don't like this. So on, and so forth, until you discover what it is, and why it's happening. At least as far as you're capable of understanding on your own. 

Then you can ask other people questions or try to find the answer on your own utilizing books or the internet or some other outside source. 

There must be some reason to change your thinking about something. Your present belief must be challenged in order for you to find reason to change it. Becoming offended of something is just one of the ways we recognize that our belief is being challenged. There are less aggressive ways of coming to the same conclusions of course. Becoming offended is just a faster, but much more aggressive means to challenge one's beliefs. A better word than offensive would be contradictory. 

Say there be an active debate. challenging one's ideals would not be called offending the other. it would be called contradicting or opposing views. Why is it in the social spectrum, anything that is contradictory or opposing one another's views is called offending or offensive?

Anytime anybody disagrees with something another has said or done, it is offensive and instantly escalates the situation and now there is a victim and an offender. Giving one much power over the other for no reason. Or because one said it first before the other. 

Why is it? Just because one is first or second? 

That all of a sudden that makes one bad and one good? 

It completely shifts the power to anyone who allows those keywords into their vocabulary, and the more power that is given to those words, the more and more those words will be turned against you. 

More and more weak people will become strong be building a stone wall between everyone and themselves with words that provide them sanctuary from defeat, no matter the battle. 

Why would anyone ever give up that power, if you give it to them? 

If you are always right, then what reason is there to listen to any opposing views or understand anyone else's plight. 

Obviously, anyone who has more than 3 brain cells and with any moral standard; would refrain from this type of behavior, but less and less will you find a man who can stand without a crutch of weaponized words, situations and actions.  

Otherwise, what is the incentive to change their thinking about anything? if they're always right... then there is no reason to learn.  

Now, it comes down to: what you are going to do about it. 

Not who are you going to tell.. But what are you. As a human with the power to do things. 

Yes! What are YOU, Going to DO, about IT.

Until next time, Love ya lots